Why the Best Years in Life Begin After 50

Author: Tami Rogers

| Published on: June,05 | Viewed: 2033 times


According to a recent study by scientists at Stoney Brook University in New York, people are happier and most satisfied with life after the age of 50.

Despite the threat of chronic illness that comes with aging, a majority of those surveyed found their stress, anger and worry fade, while feelings of happiness surged.

Dr. Arthur Stone, one of the authors of the study, called the findings “striking”. He said “The people we talked to were more likely to focus on the good things in life like family and friends than aging and potential illness.”

This finding also backs up a “positivity effect” wherein older people recall fewer negative memories and more positive ones, and are better at regulating emotions than younger people.

It supports a recent British study as well, which showed happiness is U-shaped over life, being at its highest in the young and the old, and bottoming out in middle age.

Many think this is because people begin to accept their limitations as they age and just appreciate the gift of life.

What Else Attributes to Happiness in Our Senior Years?

There are many theories as to why we seem to be happier as we age. Here are just some of them:

  • Increased “wisdom” or psychological intelligence in handling life’s ups and downs

  • Fewer aspirations and expectations of self

  • Sense of fulfillment and accomplishment

  • Greater appreciation of life

  • Living in the moment with less worry about the future

  • Greater ability to regulate emotions than younger people (more patience and understanding)

  • Less worry about pleasing people all the time

  • Fewer “negative” memories than younger people

  • Overall tendency to view situations positively

Great Ways to Stay Happy in Your Senior Years

According to the website Happify (A great website to check out at any age), here are five secrets to finding happiness after age 50.

  1. Focus on Your Passions

Wes Moss, author of  “You Can Retire Sooner Than You Think” says older people are happier when they have at least 3-5 core pursuits. So what are you waiting for? Get out there, start those hobbies and follow your passions!

  1. It’s Not Too Late to Get in Shape

Exercise is a proven way to improve both your health and your happiness over 50.  Why not keep your body and your brain working the way they should be?

  1. Build Strong Social Relationships

Getting out in the world with other people is essential to happiness. People with strong social networks tend to live longer than those who don’t have them. Join a club, or invite someone to lunch. You’ll be happier for it.

  1. Invest in Your Marriage

This is not an easy one for everybody. And it’s true not all marriages were meant to last.

However, it is true that those who are able to maintain a strong marriage as they age tend to stay happier and healthier later in life.

So if you are happily married, do everything in your power to keep it that way. In addition to receiving the gift of love, you may also get the gift of a longer, happier life.

  1. Find a Sense of Purpose

After you turn 50, you have so much to give back to the world. Beyond donating your money, why not give back some time to a cause you’re passionate about? Volunteer in an animal shelter, or tutor a young person.

Giving back to the world has shown to increase the emotional well-being and happiness of seniors.


For more information on senior living and retirement planning, visit the Seniorly Resource Center. 

About Tami Rogers

Tami Rogers is a mom, award winning writer, passionate chef, blogger and frequent contributor to Seniorly and other sites dedicated to seniors and aging well. She also writes for parenting magazines and websites focused on the emotional well being of teens.

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