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Assisted living is a type of long-term residential care for seniors who need some help with daily tasks like laundry, transportation, and medication management. Most senior communities are assisted living communities as it is the type of care that most seniors need. You might see that some communities refer to themselves as “retirement homes,” “senior residences,” or other terms, but the services they provide are usually assisted living services.
Assisted living facilities offer seniors room and board, 24-hour (non-medical) care, housekeeping, laundry services, social engagement, wellness programs, and much more. This 24-hour non-medical care typically includes helping residents with the activities of daily living (or ADLs): bathing, dressing, toileting, etc. Assisted living communities can be large, hotel-like properties, or more intimate single family homes (often called board and care or residential care homes). The terminology a community uses can vary slightly due to preference or state regulations; for example, you might see assisted living communities sometimes referred to as long term care facilities. The types of services, amenities, and community atmosphere and culture, will vary from property to property, but the basic premise of helping older adults with ADLs every day is consistent.
The aging process is different for everyone. As people experience increased daily care needs, cognitive decline, social isolation, and/or the desire for a maintenance-free lifestyle, assisted living communities can be the best option. Although assisted living staff will have an individualized care plan in place for each resident, it does not mean constant monitoring or a lack of privacy. Assisted living can be the perfect balance for seniors who want to be independent, but also need some day-to-day assistance and care.
Assisted living communities vary widely in size and style. Some might be smaller and more casually cozy, while others aim for the vibes of a luxury hotel. Typically, though, assisted living communities are comprised of communal areas (including dining rooms, libraries, game rooms, etc.) and private rooms. You could share your room with a roommate, or have your own suite, complete with kitchenette. Meal times are often communal, but in many communities you'll have the option to dine in your room, or enjoy snacks at your leisure.
Typically you’ll be able to bring in some of your own furniture, as well as your art, family photos, and other home decor. Assisted living communities want their residents to feel at home. Assisted living communities might offer studios, one bedroom, or even two bedroom units to residents.
Most assisted living communities will also have outdoor spaces, though they may be as simple as a modest patio or as grand as large gardens.
Assisted living communities might also offer theaters, exercise rooms, indoor and/or outdoor pools, chapels, salons, and private event rooms where you can hold family gatherings and celebrations. These amenities just depend on the size and style of the community.
Read our article on assisted living resident's rights to learn more of what you can expect from this type of community.
Assisted living vs skilled nursing facilities (SNFs)
Often, families start their senior living search by looking for “nursing homes.” Although the public still uses the term “nursing home,” within the senior care industry it is all but obsolete. If any senior housing fits the term “nursing home,” however, it is Skilled Nursing Facilities. While assisted living provides help with daily living, SNFs offer much more involved medical care.
Most SNF residents spend the majority of their time sedentary: they might be bed or wheelchair bound with limited mobility. They need daily skilled nursing care, such as help with a feeding tube, that an assisted living community could not provide. The majority of seniors don’t need the level of care SNFs provide, or only need it for a short period of time while recovering from an accident or surgery.
Assisted living vs. independent living
Seniors who choose independent living communities typically require very little, if any, daily assistance. Unlike in assisted living, independent living residents can get around, cook, bathe, clean, and manage the majority of their life without extra help.
Independent living often provides day-to-day social activities and communal amenities, similar to gated communities or large condo associations. Living spaces are usually larger, apartment-style quarters with full kitchens, outdoor areas, private rooms, etc. Some senior communities (CCRCs) offer independent living units as well as assisted living and even memory care, allowing residents to age in place, or for spouses who need different levels of care to live on the same property together.
Assisted living vs. memory care
Memory care is designed to provide a safe and stable environment to residents who have been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s or dementia. If your loved one only has occasional lapses in memory, and has not been formally diagnosed, they likely do not require memory care just yet, and would be better served by an assisted living community. Memory care communities offer activities designed to promote cognition and provide a routine environment that helps to alleviate the anxiety that confused residents might feel. They also tend to be secure in order to keep residents safe from wandering.
Assisted living vs. in-home care
In-home care is just what it sounds like, care that takes place in your own home. In-home care can be divided into two categories: home care and home health care. Home care provides services similar to what you’ll find in assisted living: help with ADLs, cleaning, meal prep/delivery, transportation, and other chores or errands. Seniors who want to stay in their own home for as long as possible often seek out home care. Home health care, in contrast, provides medical supervision, usually after hospitalization or injury. Home health care providers can bring services like physical therapy, medical tests, administration of medicine/shots, and wound care to you at home. Even if a senior already lives in an assisted living community they might be able to, depending on their communities capabilities, have home health care services come to them in their community, so that they don’t need to move out as they recover from surgery or illness. Similarly, a family might request additional home care support for a senior in assisted living, for more 1:1 attention or companionship.
According to our data, the national average for assisted living costs in 2021 was $3,931 per month. That comes to about $47,172 a year. That may sound like a big number, but once you add up all current living costs, you may be surprised that there are often notable savings.
Keep in mind that this is an average, and that the numbers used to calculate it spanned a wide range. There are a few factors that go into this cost, location being perhaps the most important: the cost of care varies widely across the country and from urban to rural areas. Additionally, the personal care services provided and the amenities available will change the cost from community to community.
The costs of assisted living cover the room, three meals per day, 24-hour supervision, housekeeping, and daily non-medical assistance as part of your monthly fee. Once you add up housing, meals, healthcare, social activities, and other amenities, the cost of assisted living might actually be comparable to living at home, especially when compared against home maintenance, property taxes, and other monthly expenses.
There are also many ways to find that perfect balance of price, services, and comfort. There are a wide range of communities, from the basic to the luxurious. It is possible to choose an assisted living facility that fits your budget without skimping on care and amenities.
Most families pay for assisted living with private funds: retirement funds, pensions, and personal savings. After private funds, home equity is one of the most common ways to pay for assisted living. Equity is the money saved up in your house: you can either sell your property for a lump sum to cover costs, or take out a line of credit backed by the property to supplement your needs. Similarly, reverse mortgages are a kind of slow liquidation of home equity. With a reverse mortgage, you get a monthly payment for your house that slowly turns the money you’ve put into it into cash that can go towards assisted living expenses.
Even families that live comfortably can feel some “sticker-shock” at the price of assisted living. If you’re unsure if assisted living can realistically fit into your budget, look into the many financial aid options available. Many communities offer special payment plans, programs, and other strategies to help your loved one live in their ideal community. Below are some other types of benefits that might be able to help either with the cost of assisted living itself, or with hospital stays and healthcare.
Deciding how to pay for assisted living or any kind of senior living care for yourself or a loved one can be as challenging as finding the right care was in the first place. Before you commit to one method to cover costs, be sure you know all of the options you may be eligible for.
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Assisted living provides assistance with the activities of daily living, or ADLs. Medical professionals and assisted living staff use ADLs to evaluate how independently someone can live.
Assisted living communities can help residents with all of these activities of daily living in addition to laundry, meals, transportation, and medication management, while still affording them the independence to pursue their hobbies and interests every day.
While some seniors fear leaving their own homes and moving into assisted living, many report that after making the transition they are happier: it is easier to socialize and get out of the rut they might have been in. It’s been proven that maintaining social connections is essential to keeping senior minds sharp and healthy. It also helps to stave off depression and other mental problems, which can be a serious issue for older adults.
Though your loved one may currently seem more than content with the familiarity of their own home, the ability to easily enjoy meals with friends, learn new skills, and interact with their peers daily often becomes a priceless, life-extending amenity. What assisted living offers is quality of life and connection.
Some common activities that assisted living communities might offer are art or exercise classes, shopping trips, dances, movie nights, bingo, religious services, day trips to museums and other sites of interest, and live music/performances.
Assisted living amenities might include a salon or spa, swimming pool, gardens, fitness centers, game rooms, and more. These amenities will vary of course, from community to community, but whether the community is large or small, basic or luxurious, assisted living staff are committed to making residents feel at home and providing access to the hobbies and activities that are important to them.
We figured finding a place close to us that would have the amenities my father needed would not be easy. He had spinal stenosis and the only pain relief he got was swimming every day in the pool in his condominium complex. We thought it would be close to impossible to find a place that housed an indoor swimming pool...We were pleasantly surprised to find that these communities had changed a lot over the years.
It’s hard to know when to start considering assisted living. Oftentimes, family members are forced to find an assisted living community after their older loved one experiences a medical emergency. It's much easier and less stressful to find and move into an assisted living community on your own time frame however, and many seniors do plan their transitions proactively. Making a proactive decision about assisted living, before an emergency forces the issue allows you can take your time touring communities and choosing one that will suit you or your loved one’s needs.
Some signs that it is time to consider assisted living include noticing that your loved one is less mobile than they used to be, have trouble keeping themselves and their home clean, or seem to be losing track of bills and communication. If your loved one doesn’t bounce back from illness or injury the way they used to, or if they’ve lost a noticeable amount of weight (accompanied by an empty fridge or pantry full of expired food), it is time to talk to them about moving someplace where their daily needs can be met and they can live life more fully and comfortably. Read our assisted living moving guide.
Now that you know what to expect from an assisted living community you can start your search. It might help you to create a list of must-have features and nice-to-haves. Much like house-hunting, or maybe like selecting a college, moving to a senior community is just another life change. You can enter your zip code below and start looking for assisted living communities near you and filter by your desired services and amenities. Our search bar can also connect you with a Seniorly Partner Advisor who can help you through the entire process, from scheduling tours to making sure move-in day goes smoothly.
Once you’ve got a shortlist of properties you’d like to tour, you can start thinking of questions to ask.
Each state has its own licensing agency responsible for inspecting and certifying each assisted living community. Here is a full list of regulating agencies by state, as well as a full list of certifications you should always ask to see. Always ensure the senior living community is completely certified with a reliable, upbeat staff of managers, nurses, caregivers, and other personnel. When asking questions, there should be no hesitation to prove total compliance of regulations. Take a look at our list of over 70 questions you might want to ask the community.
Beyond these important considerations, you should pay attention to whether the property seems well-kept, the staff seem friendly, and the residents seem happy.
Read our articles on traits to look for and how to evaluate assisted living communities to get even more in depth advice on selecting a community that’s right for you.